That little engine that will ...

[MeMyselfandI]

Thank you True, I have read many of your posts and really respect your opinion and am very grateful that you have read mine. I understand what you are saying but H and I had a controntation, (of course, initiated by me), in which he told me in no uncertain terms that D invited OW to her party. I simply apologized at the time as I had accused him of not giving D her special day without distractions. In the long run, I have learned that H lied about what really happened and I responded by talking to D about honesty throughout this entire thing.

I know what you are saying to leave the kids out and I am certainly not trying to manipulate by any stretch but I do really strive for some honesty here between the kids and I because I know they are struggling. I have reiterated with them, time and time again that their relationship with their dad is theirs and theirs alone but I'm also really trying to assist them. I welcome any and all advice on how to go about this and really appreciate your feedback.