Not Sure Which Way to Go

[downandoutintn]

I will tell you what I've told some others, and that is if my LBH had dropped me like yesterday's newspaper and started showing interest in dating.......honey, it would have ended my EA right that second! I would have forgotten all about the OM and my H would have had my undivided attention! But, that's just me. Maybe your W is different than most.

She has always told me that if I dated somebody else that she would go crazy. I have witnessed this already a couple of times in this sitch where she has had total breakdowns because she thought I was seeing somebody else. I think I would be better suited to make it appear that I was with somebody else rather than actually doing it. I don't think she would be as forgiving as I am but who knows. I really have decided that I am cutting out the small talk. She needs to see what life is like without me. I have never cut her off from contact. She needs to learn a lesson or let go and quit dragging me along.