She can't learn that D will not solve her problems without the experience, right? She can't come out of her fog the way she went in, she can only go trough it and come out the other side, right?
Pickle. Absolutely.
She has to learn her own lessons.
Maybe or maybe not make her way back to you.
What you do. You do for you.
You do for your M
your family
and for her.
Remember that.
Do you have the courage to let her find her way?
What your Dad said.
Most people don't have to face what you are facing
And
Most people don't choose what you are choosing.
To undertstand
To find compassion
To set yourself on a path of healing
and to being the man you want to be.
Only through this hell will you find yourself
On the other side.
Your Dad is not married to your W.
Nor is anyone else at this point.
This situation is not unique
what IS you unique is YOU
And your choice of how to handle your commitment and youself.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
