Nope, I have not seen nor heard from him since our 8th date which was two weeks ago. I am not going to continue initiating contact because I prefer to go out with a man who is interested enough to pursue me to some extent.
On the other hand, golf guy had texted me happy vday and again this week he texted to tell me he missed seeing me and talking to me. He was in South Dakota for an interview and suggested getting together when he drove near here on his way back home--he lives 2.5 hours from here. I had my kids so I declined (plus I am not all that in to him) and he said ok, next time. So apparently I will have to be more forward bc we haven't gone out since November and he continues pursuing! I almost wish I did like him more since he is at least attentive.
I am just taking a break from the dating game. I canceled my match membership back in December and I do not feel like eliminating another 2000 profiles to find one good one. So no more looking for a guy.
Funny I was talking about things with my pastor last week. When he comforted me and told me that Dan's As and problems were not my fault. And I said I was not going to go out looking for love, and he said, "But you never know when the right guy could walk into your life." So I am going with that. When Mr. Awesome walks into my world, then I will go out with him. Till then, focusing on work and kids, and getting my house and my life in order.
