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[Truegritter]

if he has spoken to them all week, if he's back in town or what the deal is.

It seems by your register date you've been at this a while.

It is unfortunate that your D saw your post and reacted to it.

I would share a great piece of advice with you if you haven't already seen it.

Keep the children out of it.

It is not your job to repair the realtionship with their father it is your job not to damage it.

Your assumption that your D invited OW to party was step in a pile...

Wipe it off and move forward.

Sorry to be so blunt.

Sometimes our pain and anger clouds our judgment.

Best thing is to push the pain and anger out of the situation.

Easier said than done but what better reason to motivate you than you D. And her wellbeing through this tragedy.