MLCer on Fast Track to Divorce

[Truegritter]

If anyone can tell me how to tell a MLCer that I’m standing for our marriage I’d really appreciate it.

I would not tell him anything right now.

Because you are not in the right place to tell him what you want to say...

For now...Welcome to best worst place to be.

Cadet should be by to post the resources for you.

Read them.

You have to detach first and foremost.

What? Yes it means removing yourself from the rollercoaster ride your H is on.

Don't snoop. Don't argue with him. Don't point out the problems in your M. He ain't listening right now.

This is YOUR time. Use it it for YOU.

If he is MLC then your tactics and tricks won't lure him back.

It is a process of collapsing all the wrong ideas about how his life should be going at this point.

You didn't break his life and you can't fix it. He must come to it on his own terms.

You have a target tatoo on your back.

He will blame everyone but himself so just step out of the line of fire.

Patience.

Enought to outlast his crazy journey.

And

It is time for you to start your own.