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How long should you try? Until........ #2135425 02/26/11 12:53 AM
Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 1,496 2 2stepboogie OP Member
OP 2stepboogie Member 2 Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 1,496	http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2120126&page=1 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2123701#Post2123701 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2125481#Post2125481 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2127029&page=1 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2129206&page=all http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2131013&page=1 "Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love." BITS

Re: How long should you try? Until........ 2stepboogie #2135426 02/26/11 12:54 AM
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OP 2stepboogie Member 2 Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 1,496	http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2133038&page=all Forgot to add my last thread. Sorry small oversight BITS

Re: How long should you try? Until........ 2stepboogie #2135430 02/26/11 01:00 AM
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Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	I prefer: "Because,' she said, 'when you're scared but you still do it anyway, that's brave." If you're going to go and quote Neil Gaiman : ) Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: How long should you try? Until........ 2stepboogie #2135431 02/26/11 01:00 AM
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wanda15 Member W Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 176 BC Canada	I second that! I hate love too!!!! Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007

Re: How long should you try? Until........ wanda15 #2135433 02/26/11 01:03 AM
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Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	Why not just go all zen: If you hate love, then you love to hate. Have a good weekend. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: How long should you try? Until........ wanda15 #2135434 02/26/11 01:04 AM
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OP 2stepboogie Member 2 Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 1,496	LOL J3B, I like mind better. At least tonight.......... BITS

Re: How long should you try? Until........ Jack_Three_Beans #2135435 02/26/11 01:05 AM
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sparks14 Member S Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 402	Ugh. I am in love. Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated

Re: How long should you try? Until........ sparks14 #2135445 02/26/11 01:53 AM
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Truegritter Member T Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 2,698	Originally Posted By: 2step ...You give them a piece of you. Did you give it? Then you don't want it back right? Therein lies the paradox of love. You do know you have to figure this out don't you 2step? You are far enough along to at least ask the question. Yes? Read what Jack wrote again. If you hate love, you love to hate You don't die from a snake bite You die from the poison. What will serve YOU 2step? My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am

Re: How long should you try? Until........ Truegritter #2135478 02/26/11 04:43 AM
Joined: Oct 2010 Posts: 6,810 Florida S Starsky309 Member
Starsky309 Member S Joined: Oct 2010 Posts: 6,810 Florida	Originally Posted By: Truegritter Originally Posted By: 2step ...You give them a piece of you. Did you give it? Then you don't want it back right? Therein lies the paradox of love. You do know you have to figure this out don't you 2step? You are far enough along to at least ask the question. Yes? Read what Jack wrote again. If you hate love, you love to hate You don't die from a snake bite You die from the poison. What will serve YOU 2step? This is a strange place. I don't do cryptic. Starsky M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07 At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)

Re: How long should you try? Until........ Truegritter #2135490 02/26/11 05:24 AM
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shaves Member S Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 41	Love is not a feeling it is a decision. You need to decide.

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