H still living in home but cheating

[sandi2]

Nothing is accomplished by asking your H if he's cheated. Of course he's going to deny it.

Have you thought that your D's close escape with death affected your H as much as it did you? If he was involved with OW, it may have hit him hard with a big case of guilt.

The way you described him around Valentine's Day sounds as if he might have tried to act more like a H should, but if you continue doing the same routine....he may think it's not worth it. Maybe he's told OW that he's through ands wants to keep his family, and she's giving him all kinds of threats.

So, here's my question to you.....what would you do if you were contacted by OW and told that your suspicions were true. What would be your next move?


Now let's say that before you have time to decide what your move would be, that your H decides to confess everything to you. Then what would be your next move?


I would be interested to know how you'd answer both scenarios.