I was originally taken back by the advice. I think it kind of shocked me.
The truth of the matter is that this is the ONLY thing that works for some.
I will tell you what I've told some others, and that is if my LBH had dropped me like yesterday's newspaper and started showing interest in dating.......honey, it would have ended my EA right that second! I would have forgotten all about the OM and my H would have had my undivided attention! But, that's just me. Maybe your W is different than most.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
