Some lingering uncertainty about how much too show my wife I really want her, but I feel I'm maintaining a pretty good balance between showing interest and detachment.
The good news is I am feeling much better about myself, I know I'm being true to myself, and I'm really not so worried about what she says or does right now.
Weird but it's kind of like I'm making love to her right now. I'm just totally calm, confident, present, enjoying myself completely while waiting for next response before making another move.
Never really did that when we were actually together, and the best part is this doesn't feel like any kind of "tactic." It just feels like I'm being more true to me.
Light years beyond the weak and sniveling jealous coward who tried sneaking into her facebook account just a few short weeks ago.
All I can say to anyone who is listening is focus on what you really need, not on what you fear.
And remember there is a difference between our wants and needs. To figure out what you want is easy, just ask "What would I like to have?"
But to figure out what you NEED, ask yourself "What would I like to have DONE?"
Profoundly more effective.
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.
