..an argument I've seen used lately was "how dare you speak this way since you haven't saved your M"? Excuse me? If that was a valid argument, 99% of the veterans would have to quit posting.
Wow, that's demoralizing - 99% of the people here haven't saved their marriages?
M: 43 H: 44 M: 12.5 if the 5.5 year separation counts Bomb (I dropped it): Dec '07 H said finit: Jun '10 I moved on: May '13