I am not sure how to get the "proof". All I know is that it is driving me crazy. I swing back and forth from being clingy and sad to angry and aloof to understanding and kind. Maybe I just need to "man up" and try to get some real answers. H always denies when I've asked in the past. Then he acts super mad at me for even asking the question. Like how dare I question him?

Do A's ever just end and do things ever go back to normal without confrontation? Or do I need to gear up for battle?


Me - 49
H - 56
S - 23
D - 20
Married 25 years
H moved out 10/11/13
H moved back in 10/13/13
H moved out again 8/1/14