Got a text from H today asking that I have the kids call him. I'm don't know, (don't really care either) if he has spoken to them all week, if he's back in town or what the deal is. He has never had to contact me to get a hold of the kids as he has always been able to call our home phone but I had it disconnected this week as there was no point in continuing to pay for a service that never really got used, (aside from convenience for him to be able to contact the kids). On top of saving money, he will also get to know what it feels like to have to go through me to contact the kids which I have put up with for almost a year.

D was at a sleepover and S and I were out so I told S that H wanted him to call. S said, I'll call him when D gets home, (translated into, I don't really want to talk to him but D will so this will mean I can get off the phone sooner). I sent text back to H saying that D was at sleepover and S says he'll call when she gets back.


Me: 41
STBXH: 36
D: 11
S: 9
BOMB 12/2009
SEPARATED 5/2010
D SERVED BY ME 9/2010
FINAL D When I'm ready