JS, Thanks for the reply, I am still wondering if mine fits too.. but I keep reading alot of the different areas on this board after SC brought it to my attention.. The biggest thing that sticks out to me is in a thread called "my thoughts on why they run away during crisis" and it has to do with childhood.. My W's parents divorced when she was a junior in High School, and now she and her father have not spoken in 20 years (she did not even invite him to our wedding). I have stood by her on this over the years, as I felt it was her decision, but the abandonment now sticks out very Glaringly .. when considering the MLC side of our sitch..
Me-43,W-41 Married 18 years Together 20 years S12, S13 Wife EA - 3-2009 Reconciled WAW-9-2009 Reconciled again 2-2010 Bomb- 12/30/2010 Asked for a Divorce 2-8-2011 BITS
