You are doing good, girl! Hope you have a great time tonight! Just be strong and keep DBing like a pro!
I guess my lesson through all of this is...no matter how much time passes, as messed up as our childhoods were, we have to work extra hard to have a great R. We have to work super hard to do what we have to to keep our M together. Sometimes I get weak and want to cry and basically have a tantrum that I have to do this all alone, no help from H, and it's so extremely hard!!! But then I buck up and realize...that's life...that's just the way things are and I have to face that. We do have a choice.
Anyway, I am glad you are managing really well! I am so happy for ya! Go girl! Have a blast tonight! Debi