Cautiously Optimistic

[zengypsy]

Scylla - Sounds like you had a great DB'g session. I think he gave great advice obviously if it's working!!!!

You and I are alike in this manner:
"I don't take "no" or disagreement well, it was and sometimes is a personal ouch.
I am learning how to handle it better than I have.
My H. has a very difficult time saying no, and doesn't feel respected or heard"

I hope thru all my therapy and DB'g that I'm able to communicate my feelings better and not take things so personally. I haven't really had a significant chance to practice on H and probably won't in the very near future, but I remain hopeful that one day all this hard work has paid off. Thank you for keeping that window of hope alive.