Last night I was home and feel asleep on the couch. H asked if I wanted to be moved upstairs and apparently, I said no. He covered me with extra blankets and he went to our bed (1st time in MONTHS)
He came down to wake me at 5am because he didn't think I would wake without the alarm. He laughed that I slept on the couch and he said he was glad because he really misses sleeping in our bed. I did wake around 2am and almost got into bed. Sooooo glad I didn't. Or should have I?
I got ready for work while he layed in the bed watching the news. We laughed and talked the whole time, a first in months. He caught`me singing a song and said "are you singing?" and I said I always like to start my day with a song. We laughed hard.
Are these steps in the right direction?
YES!!! These are great steps! The fact he noticed you and didn't want you on the couch. The fact he came down to wake you up. Laughter! All great steps!
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated