Last night I was home and feel asleep on the couch. H asked if I wanted to be moved upstairs and apparently, I said no. He covered me with extra blankets and he went to our bed (1st time in MONTHS)

He came down to wake me at 5am because he didn't think I would wake without the alarm. He laughed that I slept on the couch and he said he was glad because he really misses sleeping in our bed. I did wake around 2am and almost got into bed. Sooooo glad I didn't. Or should have I?

I got ready for work while he layed in the bed watching the news. We laughed and talked the whole time, a first in months. He caught`me singing a song and said "are you singing?" and I said I always like to start my day with a song. We laughed hard.

Are these steps in the right direction?


me:51
H: 48
No kids together
M:14 years
seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11
Piecing 09/14