Thanks sandi that is more of the advice I was looking for.
gr8 i wasnt trying to call you out but I just don't think that was the answer. I just don't morally believe in that. If you mind and heart is with one woman then you shouldn't physically be with a different woman. If you have detached to the point you don't care at all then that is different and that was probably what happened in your case. So be it. I don't want to hurt somebody else the way I have been hurting. At this point it would make me just the same as my W. I can't be anything outside of friends with other women now. It is not fair to the other woman.
Togther 10 yrs Married 2/6/2009 Me-29 W-26 S-5 S-2 Bomb 12/10 Separated 1/11 D filed 2/11