I think that the break in the tension will do you both some good. Hopefully she'll start seeing reality because I think that she's still deeply entrenched in her fantasy.
What happened between mother and wife?
Listen, SIC, use your time to start reading a bit more. There's a book that I got, "Hold Me Tight" that has really explained to me what we're feeling and going through. It calmed me down because I understood that a lot of the anger we are going through is normal. It talks about how to work through that. Divorce Busting also has a facebook site that you should check out. There are a lot of articles on there that talk about how to make our way through this. For me, for instance it tells me 12 ways on talking to my man. Check it out. Let me know what you think.
