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[AliSuddenly]

Hey Mish.. I dont know whats precipitated this latest round of frustration from you.. but you are in a bit of a stalemate hey.

What happened to the suggestions of applying Db principles again? As Donna posted (I read that to help me deal with H).. it talks about focusing on yourself and GALing and feeling worthy in yourself, without the need of validation from someone else.

Beucase thats it isnt it.. you seem to measure yourself all teh time in other peoples eyes.. Gabe doesnt want to commit/doesnt love me enough.. therefore I am rubbish/weak/unworthy.. he only came back to me out of convenience and comfort.. blah blah.

Mish, as my sister once said to me.. there are 6 billion people on the planet, you are not defined by just ONE person.

And as for this hun...
"No more whining, playing the victim (except of my own stupidity), or talking about it here.

No amount of talking it out is getting my head in order so it's futile.

Moving on from this subject."

Can you quit making empty promises like that!!?? I've heard it before and its not realistic.. this isnt a place to come and chat about mundane issues and the weather, this is a forum for you to vent, journal and get help etc.

You need to take some focus off Gabe.. he may even sense it and find it stifling.. you need to focus on you. DB101 hun.

Yes and why not use Donna's Db session, if they'll let you transfer it??
Al xxx