My H said last week that he wants us to move forward with filing. My DB coach suggested I approach him with asking for ideas on how we can get along in our R for D's sake - she is planning a wedding for this fall, and this should a happy time for her. I'm hoping we'll both contribute ideas for the R. Will he contribute? Will this postpone the filing/D? Who knows, but hopefully it will be less painful for our D, and as a result, our S.
