There is no easy answer here. You are in such a precarious position right now. Last year when my W first left and about 4 months in, I hooked up with a girl who was recently divorced.
IT was NOT good. We had sex but almost everytime I just wondered; Why arent you my wife. IT was an awful feeling.
That relationship faded fast. But what do you do? They may come back but will they really love you? And what if she doesnt come back? I know your vows meant something to you but did they mean the same to her?
Is she just in denial right now about your relationship or is she truly done? I really dont know how to advise you FOBD, ONLY YOU can decide how much you can take.
I think for your sake, you have to move on for now and keep a little hope in a box tucked away. But even that little HOPE can weigh on you as you analyze every little thing she says or does.
BELIEVE me, I know how you feel.
HANG IN THERE MAN
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