SA - detaching from all of this is the only way...I'm glad that you see H's spewing for what it is. I just had some intense moments with my H today, when he seemed to hate everything about me one moment and half hour later was telling me that he loves me and misses what we had....go figure

Hang in there

(((hugs)))

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO