Wanda I hate the roller coaster and I hate what this does to kids. We can't control what our spouses are doing and really all we can control is ourselves. I know that the only thing I want is the best for my girls. It's my job to teach them how a man should behave. I am a good man and I made the mistake of letting my wife control the marriage. From now on I will not let them see me as a weak man. I will show them a confident loving father that will do everything without fear. You need to be strong for your children.
I know you will trust again someday just as I will. We all need to see that it took two people to cause our marriages to fall apart. I have accepted my responsibility and don't really know if my wife has. But what we do learn is the things we have done wrong can never happen again in our next relationship whether with our spouce or not.
Stay strong and stay positive.
Me 44 W 38 M 18 D 18 D 13 Bomb 10/21/2010 Divorced 7/19/2011 Just getting to the 7th inning!
