H changed tactics, he suddenly was nice and caring. H tried his best to get me to take less money. I told H that there were things that we could negotiate on, but the money wasn't one of them as I needed it to live.
H changed tactics again and became a raving lunatic. Said some very awful things and started issuing orders such as that I should call my L right now and get half of the retirement out. My gut tells me there's something fishy in Denmark. H is really pushing this.
H went on to say that all I wanted to do was maintain my image off his blood and sweat. That I should go get another job and stop expecting handouts. He told me I was a lowlife and I should work for it like everybody else. (I do have a decent job that I've been at for 17 years) He said he knows I'm PO because he left, but I'd never get even. He rehashed the same old crap, but somehow he remembers it as even worse now than when he first said it as he was leaving. I got blamed for his stroke again and that I'd be responsible if he had another one. There were other things not fit to print.
I am so detached that the things he said didn't even really hurt that much. As Beatrice said, I see it for what it truly is.