"SBH: I don't know if I agree completely...I know my health is very important, but right now I think my kids' and W's happiness should come before mine."

We will have to agree to disagree. EVERYONES happiness is important. You are no good to your kids if you are unhappy. Sounds to me like your falling on the sword. All that accomplishes is death...

Your happiness is pivotal to your childrens happiness IMHO.

I do wish you good luck Navy..

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012