Yes. Stop thinking about it. It does not benefit you. It creates anxiety and insecurity. You cannot control who she is with, bottom line. That is out of your hands. Leave it in God's. She may be with OW, she may not be. Which ever it does not change your NOW. Your now is you have your S. You have us and you can please yourself.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.