Just got caught up. I think you have gotten some great advice from some of the other folks. Glad that you also had a session with a DB coach. I wish I had the funds to do at least 1 session!
Just listen to what she has to say. Even if you don't agree with her, she is entitled to here feelings. There are no rights or wrongs here. Validate simply; I understand, ok, etc.
Keep getting yourself strong so you can better represent yourself each and every day. Your kids need you.
Sending positive vibes!
BITS
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11