Well things had been going well I thought then last night after a good family day we had an R conversation. She will reveal nothing. Nothing about how she feels if she even wants to save the M. So I was pretty foward she cried a couple times but I have still ensured her that I want her to feel safe secure and us to get through this if not for me for the kids. And that it is possible to get through it. She doesn't want to hear from me so I stopped. So due to my wifes defensive behavior today I lokked at the phone record. Data shows email sized data all night. I cannot confirm she was emailing the other man but that is the most logical conclusion. Her behavior if I take from a clinical standpoint is of a depressed somewhat desperate person. Do I continue this battle for my marriage. Do I let this frustration of hers settle we had a pretty heated relationship discussion last night. Do I confront her saying I am pretty sure she has been in contact? Do I blind side her with a letter and my feelings and completed divorce papers for her to sign? it is 5 months since d day. Almost 2 since confronting about emails. maybe we do need a seperation.
I supposse it is possible 3g was updating a web page but my data has never done that.
She just lost it because I asked for transparency again.
OM Wife just confirmed OM was not online, he was asleep she was awake, for at least half of the time of the data usage.
What to do. I still want to save this.
H 37 WW 37 M 15 5 Children Bomb 9-27-10 W EA/Pa she filed 12-18-10
