Please accept my apologies if I cam off bitter in any of my post. Regardless of my situation it is no excuse to be rude. I truly wasn't trying to be dismissive. I want/need advise.

I believe I understand the basic idea of DB by not chasing, GAL and do my 180's how do I know when it is right to dip my toe in the water? When we are together as a whole family on Tuesdays it is great for all, so should I try to get for all together family time or is that up to her? When does it go from me DBing my butt off to me trying to hard to fix it?

Thank you in advance for any and all help