It is so sad to see the innocence lost in this whole mess. My D16 feels that H has chosen OW over her. She feels OW has replaced her. I can see why she feels that way too. He is so distant with his only child and finds plenty of excuses to put on D16 instead of taking responsibility as a parent. Their relationship was so beautiful, and now it is in ruins and H has no clue.
It is selfishness, H isn't choosing OW over anyone, he is choosing himself and his selfish needs. The poor OW doesn't even know that either. My H can't even tell me he doesn't love me, so the OW will never have all of him, and he is just being selfish with his needs and wants, damn be all!
(((Hugs))) and Blessings
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.
