I absolutely agree with the wall. Since the bomb we have had 2 R talks and after both of them when I talk to W on phone or tx she is warm/pleasant but a day or two she is mean and distant. Almost like she is reminding me that our talks didn't make a difference. She said after one of the talks that a crack in her wall appeared but she got confused by me again and wasn't going to let it happen.
So, am I just supposed to keep being positive, validate her when we talk, do my 180's and hope that she changes her mind? Cause my gut I'd telling me that in 60 days I'm just going to be in for a rude awakening. ___________ M32 W32 D7 D4 S3 Bomb 1/12/11 File 1/17/11