Newbie- Very Lost- Not Sure where to start

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Thanks for the reply, I know you were hesitant to state it.. but I have read those other threads for almost two hours now, and I think you may have hit my sitch exactly, I am really surprised nobody else brought it up until now... Almost scary when I ready your sitch and some of the others in the MLC... SOOOOO many similarities.. Thank you again for opening my eyes to another possible "thing" going on here.. It seems as though my focus may be changing, it may be a question of "how long do I stand" at this point and focus on acceptance of the reality that I can only continue to work on myself, and "hope" that she realizes what she is losing before it is too late..