So question to all: Is forcing a discussion on separation details (overnight visits, budgets, who pays the bills for the house, kids etc, estimated child support based on state calculator) just me being sensible or me being vindictive, petty and trying to make her realize what a mistake this is.
Are you being vindictive, petty and trying to make her realize what a mistake this is?
If you are then that'll shine through.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
