H is getting back from his trip tonight. We have not really talked since he left Monday after I confronted him with the facebook pictures that proved he had met up with ow.
He has called each night to speak with the kids and we have been friendly during our convos. I have made sure to end the conversations first and not call him during this trip. I also have let it go to voicemail a few times before calling him back. I am usually calling and trying to engage him in conversation outside the kids and jumping when he calls, so this has been very different.
I have no idea what to expect when he gets home. Based on the past 3 months he will act normal like everything is ok. I have really been thinking about how I need to stop persuing behaviors. I thought I had but I was still calling him, trying to engage him in conversations, offering to run errands for him, following him around the house.
Thanks so much for all the support everyone! It is helpful to come somewhere where I don't here "kick his A** to the curb" and move on.
