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IW, I think they can fit you for a white Lab Coat and some thick horned rimmed glasses.


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I like it IW! I actually think you are pretty close, but what do I know?

The thing is, after talking to the DB coach, I still don't know if taking away the cake is the right thing to do. Still wondering if I just have to wait and hope she likes the cake more than the icing...


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Sometimes what we fear the most is exactly what is needed.

She text you………………You don’t respond

She text you again………………………..You respond

You go dark she reaches out

See the pattern here?


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I do, and get this. Last night was the first in over a week that I sent an unsolicited pic of our D. Guess what, no response!

You're right, the pattern is getting clearer. I think this trip is coming at the perfect time, I will have this whole thing out of my head for a few days. She can wonder what I am doing all she wants, I don't care!


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First leg down. Now I have 3 hrs to wait here in Phoenix before next flight. Be tough not to just sit here and drink. I'm thirsty....


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Found one of the books I was recommended at the airport "the 5 love languages." It'll be nice for the plane. Also grabbed "becoming enlightened" by the Dalai Lama. Should be interesting...


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Have a good flight man. Let your mind rest a little on this trip


Me: 28
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Unfortunately, letting my mind rest has never been something I have been good at, but I'll try.

I'm caught up in trying to understand the psychology behind all of this. It is interesting to me.


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Started "5 love...". Very interesting so far. Worse part, he describes the "in-love" phase as lasting 2 years. I like the 6mo from my db coach better...

I know te only way my W and I reconcile is for her to come off this "high" she is feeling. Doubt I'd last 2 years...


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2 years of this crap? NO WAY. This last year already seems like 5 years have past. I think most of you can relate to this.

If it takes two years than you can add another divorce to the list. But as we are only getting legally separated, who knows what will happen in the years to come.

By that time country, you may have a sweet girl on your arm from one of your many concerts and have trouble remembering whats her name, your former wife.

All the best on your trip


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W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
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Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11
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