Turned a corner

[downandoutintn]

You don't have to hide. Just don't let him control your emotions. You control what others do to you. If he makes you angry it is because you let him. Others can only do to you what you let them do.

If he doesn't talk to you and you get depressed about it, he is not depressing you, your thoughts are what is depressing you.

Don't worry about what he is doing. Don't worry about him having something to eat, or if he is feeling well. That is not your issue at this point. Keep your self in a positive mind frame. If he yells at you, turn around and walk away.

You are caring about what he is doing too much. You are worried that he is in the house. Do like S_C said treat him like a room mate. When I had a room mate I really could have cared less if my room mate was around and what he was doing. If I didn't see him for 2 or 3 days I didn't care. I might check up on him to make sure he wasn't dead but that was as far as it went.