Great news that you now have a new boss. That does make such a HUGE difference.
Quote: Sunday I let him initiate and he did. (I am trying so hard to be patient.) Our r is diff. in that I am the one who equates love with sex, and he is more concerned about our r!! I'm the guy!! I know that he feels used at times and that I do use him for validation of my desirability. Not good. I am trying to look at things through his eyes more.
This is good! Glad you are noticing these things.
Quote: BUT, he did tell me today that SAD is getting to him
Just keep being there for him. Seems like he needs some space but doen't want you too far out of view. You've got it, do it for him!
Keep working on the PMA, your on the upswing! Yippie for YOU!
Good luck with the birthday plans, sounds like a good time. Hope you have a relaxing, wonderful time with your H!
