Years ago we worked on after-work communication. I'd want to come home and vent. When I vented, he always wanted to give me a solution. We'd end up fighting. I already KNEW the solution, I just wanted to vent. Actually, I just wanted to B*&#^H!
It was always so nice when he would just say, "Oh honey" in a sorry way... "What an a$$h#!e!" in an agreeing way....
Point- JUST listen, don't try to fix.
We're revisiting the after-work thing too, because I guess that has been upsetting him. I was feeling better, but he wasn't.
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The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.
