Am I Being Unfair ?

[misshim]

Crazy as always. They say that when you are divorced you are never really detached from our x's. Our D6 is having issues at school and they recommended to take her to the doctor for possible medication and counseling.

The school has repeatedly asked him to fill out a questionnaire regarding our d-6 and to come in for our meeting w/teacher & psychologist. Xh refused. I really think that he is more afraid of them telling him that he has issues.

Funny how we really are still connected, yet he just won't get involved with her. He doesn't look thru her school work/homework. He told me her behavior is fine when he has her. Of course it is, he still lives w/parents and his mother takes care of her so he can take a nap or shower.

It's all so frustrating. Everything he told me as to why he divorced me. All that he hated about "our" life and all that he wanted to do (that's why he left)and he hasn't done a thing to get "his" dream.

I'm trying the best I can, and I have a great support system within my church and d6 school. I've moved on with my life, but it is slow going. I finally went out in our small town on a saturday night. It's hard to hear alot of my x's old friends talk so bad about him. (They still don't like his behavior) But at the same time, I wanted to know what he's doing, I also told myself -- I don't care what he's doing.

I think I even smiled abit with that revelation to myself.

Divorced but yet sometimes it still feels like I'm on the roller coaster ride.

His winter depression is still in full swing and alot of lies. But I don't say anything to him or correct him. It's not my place anymore.