Newbie- Very Lost- Not Sure where to start

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She has also been very up and down, and I don't want to read into it, but, she started crying on my shoulder Tuesday Night after she had lunch with a friend whose 43 yr old husband is dying of a brain tumor.. I just looked at her and said, "it makes you appreciate what you have". Then we had dinner together as a family, and she and I were cleaning up together after our boys had left the room, and she leaned over and whispered to me, "those boys were hysterical tonight at dinner, I haven't laughed that hard in forever"... The next day she tells me she wants to be out by April 1st.. Can a WAS be any more irrational in there actions? Trying to stay off of the roller coaster... But WOW.. it is not easy..