You're going to have to stop playing those damned games get rid of them. From one recovering addict to another.
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She told me she isn't doing anything with him (again, I believe her) but I am worried that this support will turn to romance.
It's a good bet, if you keep pushing her.
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I have pleaded for counseling,
You read the book? That pleading part is not in there. And is not attractive either way.
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I moved my pillows and items into the spare bedroom so she can have the master instead of the couch (which she wanted to sleep on). She did say that it is hard for her to sleep in our bed.
Just making sure I read this right... She wants to sleep on the couch...she does, she doesn't like the bed, but instead you took the couch?
So...why is that?
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Her best friend told me that this was when she went "numb".
Her best friend...is not your best friend, right now? Maybe a little, maybe trying to help you guys, down the road? Not so much. Don't try and get info from her.
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What are the odds...?
ALL the odds here are affected by what you do or do not do. All of them. Read the book and post here, gather support.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
