The "watching" thing is kinda weird. At this point I am beyond wanting to confront her about specific things. The only thing I would confront her about would be the EA taking off again. If I saw signs of that I would have to take it up directly with her.
Whats really strange is seeing my wife use either in her emails to me, or in our discussions, phrases that the OM uses in his emails to her. Not sure if this is a good sign or not??? I started using them as well just for fun!
It also allows me to get a sense of where my wife is at with the R. For a period of time after I confronted her about the EA, her emails to me where all matter of fact, cold and straight to the point. Her emails to her co-workers were all full of humour and warmth etc. Lately her emails to me have taken on the same look and feel as those to her co-workers so I have that as a positive sign as well.
In the situation that we are in, we keep looking for any positive signs that things maybe changing, but have to not get excited if we do come across something.
