Hear you about V-Day, I spent all my focus on the kids and I did nothing for my W, she in turn did absolutely nothing for me - just like I expected.
It's weird how your able to "watch" their sitch, and like you said I imagine it gives you more peace of mind than not knowing - and personally I would feel better about that as well as long as you can avoid confronting your W about specific things.
I like what you did with the calendar, that's hilarious.
Nice to see some things happening for you (even if they are small) than give you hope or at least keep you feeling optimistic.
BITS SIC
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011
