Not much happening on the home front. Wife has not initiated any R talks and I have resisted from approaching her about either our R or the status of the OM. Valentine's Day came and went with neither of us acknowledging that the day even existed. She did bring home from work a small Valentine's Day Angel which she doesn't know that I have seen. I am guessing that it was from the OM, but am not sure. Its these situations that I find difficult to deal with. The OM can do whatever he wants, but if I want to give my wife something it is seen as pursuing.
They continue to email at work, but its about weird stuff. Last week he emailed her asking if she know where he could buy a large calendar for his fridge?? Wife responded that it was a strange request, but that she had an extra calendar at home that might work. (I have "accidently" misplaced the extra calendar. Guess he will have to buy his own!)
I know snooping is one of the things that we should not be doing, but I do find that in a strange way it actually allows me to connect with my wife. I have insight into what is going on in her life that she currently chooses not to share with me. It also gives me some piece of mind, even though I can't do anything about the situation, it does allow me to see where she is at. I think this is better than not knowing and letting my imagination run wild.
Wife did bring me home a Protein Cookie that one of her co-workers made. My wife knows that I like to eat healthy stuff. Shows me that she does actually think of me at some point during her day.
