Piecing is almost harder than before...

[Bolt]

xyz-you're right man. On both accounts.

you were selfish and can still be by wanting to rush things. Like I've said, a million times...I'm right there man.

It's hard when you are one way for so long to then switch. It's also hard to recognize when you are being selfish.

In your case - the impatience. It doesn't seem like selfishness but it is. But at least you caught it and can do something about it.

The second part is that she is getting closer. EVEN MORE of a reason to not pressure her.

Keep remembering how close you are when you want to push it more.

I almost blew it this morning with pressuring her into R talk...glad I averted it.