I guess that is the part that I am really having the most difficulty with. How can she be with this loser? How can he be replacing me in her heart. My therapist told me that you are not in her heart and thats why it was available to be given away to another man. OUCH but I guess it rings true.
I say again. She can be with this loser, because she doesn't value HERSELF. She is accetping crumbs because right now it's more than she was getting in her perception. Eventually those crumbs won't be enough. Wait for that ...be the banquet she's been longing for.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.