Originally Posted By: ninelives
The no contact is what I want but when I get it, its like a reverse DB working on me


9 I know exactly what you mean. It has only been 4 days. IMO this is too soon to begin to evaluate this action. I was dark for 2 weeks then saw a couple of small positives. There are others here that have gone longer. Give your action more time then evaluate, don’t react.

Sometimes I worry that I am being DB'ed or that the resource W is using advises "Just give him time to accept your decision, he'll eventually see your wisdom"


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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

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