Just a quick message to say welcome to the boards and to bump your thread a little.
It sounds like your W is caught up in an EA (emotional affair) and is seeking to end her R with you in order to pursue it.
You have a tough road ahead of you and lot of work to put in, plus you require a solid plan to stick to. For now it is important that you stay calm and do not pursue her, beg, plead etc. Do not rage on her and push her further away either.
I will check back with you soon, when I have a little more time. Hopefully some other vets will visit this thread and offer their advice also.
How much you get out of this site depends on what you are willing to put into it. If you keep coming back and posting updates, your thread will get attention. If you let it fade away, you will get none.
SF
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
